Confidence is Key

Wednesday. Today was a long day, but I am so ready for this week to be over! Friday is almost here! I can't wait for the weekend and some time to just sit and relax. Don't forget next week is Picture week, starting on Sunday!

Today I was talking with a friend about insecurity. This really hit me hard. I'm not an insecure person but she is. But you know, it took until I was 18 to finally be confident in myself. I learned how to believe in myself and except me for me. It is interesting to me how may people are insecure. How many people would change everything about their life. I know for a fact that I wouldn't change a thing. Insecurity is a common issue that many people struggle with, more women than men. What causes this? Is it our society? Is it our mirror? Or could it be someone in our life? Our society tells us that women should be flawless, and skinny. They tell us that you should look like a barbie and that is how you will get men to like you. WRONG! Society is wrong, it's the women who don't wear ten pounds of make-up and have a few curves that should really be our role models. No one can reach perfection, and no one can be you but you. Don't let the mirror tell you that you should look better, you tell the mirror, this is how I wanna look! And don't ever let anyone in your life bring you down. You should only have people in your life that bring you up. Be strong and don't let anyone bring you down. Now all of this may be like well its easy to say, but really hard to do. And it is hard. It is hard to say I don't need all that crap to make me pretty, its hard to say that it doesn't matter what people say or think about me. But honestly once you take the first step to being confident, the rest will follow. Confidence is what will bring the men your way. The more confident in who you are, the more beautiful you become, and that has nothing to do with a mirror. Once you can except who you are so will the world.  And honestly if the someone doesn't like who you are, then why hang out with them, it's their lose not yours.

Remember Confidence is beauty, and no one can be you but YOU! It may take awhile to actually be confident in yourself, and know it. But start today. Because once you start being you, and stop worrying about everyone else everything just falls together.